Tuesday, April 28, 2009

My Friend, Philosopher nd Guide!!!

I just called her few hours back and I told her that I would write something special for her.This person is some one whom I admire the most.So,here I dedicate this post to my Friend,Philosopher and my guide.

I met this person on 21st September two years ago in this social networking site called 'Orkut'.I know Orkut has done wonders and has played an important role in the building friendship between strangers.The result of this is that eventually strangers land up being good friends infact the best of friends.It was a random friends request.I just got through her orkut profile through a mutual friend who is no longer common to us.I was impressed with the way she managed her orkut profile."~~iT ()nly t@kes a sMiLe to stOp 1000 tEaRs~~" was written on her orkut profile. Now,don't click this link it will redirect to my Orkut profile and not hers:P. I promised her that I won't write her orkut link here. How thoughtful the line is?Just imagine, to stop some from feeling sad,upset and to stop their tears we just need a single smile.Trust me your Solitary Writer wasn't a blogger at that time.Probably few things like this forced me to write my own blog.This status message itself was enough and I got inspired.This instigated me to check her album.Believe me at that time there was no Photo lock like thing in Orkut and the photos that you upload was visible to everyone on Orkut.Perhaps this was the reason why Orkut came up with this photo lock thing.Ok,enough of recent development of Orkut.I would end up giving a seminar if I talk about it.
Well,her album didn't contained any of her picture.It was a mindblowing collections of thoughtful quotes ,images and cute baby pictures.Her about me was awesome.That was the reason why I send her an add request.Just read this.
I don't want 2 say anything
I don't want 2 put anything down
I don't want to smile or speak
U may find it funny and smile
U may find it weird and frown
I don't want 2 lie
I don't want 2 b true
So whatever u want 2 think
I leave up to u.........

How often do you see people with such About Me in your Orkut.I don't know why I send her friends request,just some real time response to stimulus after my brain decoded those beautiful lines.I was a bit skeptical that she won't add me for sure.I just checked my Orkut and yes she did add me .I was very happy that I atleast found a thoughtful person on my friendslist and believe me that was the time I was new to Orkut and didn't knew much about it.Now,the scenario is different.I just send her a scrap saying "thanks for adding me" and that was the day when our trsyt with "Thanks" started.Later on 'thanks' was accompanied by few other courteous words like 'sorry'.,'welcome' ,'forgive ' etc.I still wonder why girls like her say 'thanks' and 'sorry' often.She really gets pissed off when I call her an 'angel'.She refuses to accept it .She loves to be called a 'devil' or a 'frog' as I love calling her frog .Hey Mannat see I got a new nick for our best friend.Now,Stick to the tradition of calling her 'frog'.This nick perfectly matches her. I would definately say that she is a blessed person for she is surrounded by beautiful souls around her.Everytime I log in Orkut and I see loads of testimonials awaiting her from her friends .
She is a blessing in disguise to her parents,I mean not disguise but she is a blessing to her parents for sure. Such an attitude,just makes you wonder that this girl is not from our league.She is much more than an angel. I would like to write more about her,but I would do it some other day.I am pining for time as its my project presentation tommorow.I would like to show you the snippet of our convo few days back.
She: lame that i am
u r not
heheheh thanks 4 being so kind....its okie...
mujepata hai i'm lame its okie
even me lame ...me no less.
acha....lame aise hote hai????????????mad???????????????
ur an angel and jaldi list de.
:pehli baat i'm nt an angel and coming 2 d list.....

1.u've always listened n taken my nonsense patiently...
2.there were tyms i behaved in a stuck up manner,hurt ya...bt u always undrstood....n lt me be..n forgv me...
3.u always encouraged me fr thngs i nevr thought i cud do...
4....u wrote an artcle n a poem fr me....n gv me credit 4 things i dnt evn do
5. u always mk me feel remebered n special
6. u help me undrstand thngs...n try 2 improvise...evn though i show remote signs of improvmnt
7.u nevr complain n accept me d way i'm..evn though i'm a frog...
8. u nevr broke my trust...n gv me r friendship wich i cherrish
9. u nevr force thngs on me
10.n most imp 4 being wt u r....
She: i cn jus go on nd on.....bt guess..this much shud satisfy u 4 now.

I am amazed by the amount of love and respect she has for her parents and her brother.She is a perfect example of an ideal friend.I still miss those late night chats from 10pm-2am during April-May 2008.That was the most memorable days of our friendship where we fought,irritated each other.I was going through the bad phase of my life with fractured limbs and Pneumonia struck,I wondered if everything would be fine.There has been many days when I had drenched my bed with tears because of those bad times of my life.This was the period when I met this angel who seems to be so kind and helpful.I cherish your friendship and for days to come.We both will serve as a perfect example of best friends.Thanks a lot you have done for me,Parzz.
Thanks a lot my 'Frog','Angel' sorry 'Devil'. :P

She is my BEST friend.

Post inspired from Shweta for My Friend,Philosopher n Guide @WL


  1. u know what every word of what u wrote...like u have already read was like my story bein repeated...how special such friends are na...we give them a p[lace in our heart and i am sure no one else can take that place...u r lucky to have ur angel (frog :P) n so is she to have a such lovely friend in ur form ste...god bless u both...

    PS: i am an inspiration wooowwww :P :D :)

  2. That was so damn sweet and cute :D.....it filled me with a sense of happiness n glad that such frndship do exist in today's time.....u know i have always distanced myself from virtual frndships...but somehow have ended up making my bestie who were my virtual buddies before ...so i feel frndships have no boundaries....may this bond stay forever and ever....this was one truly direct to heart post :D

  3. Aaaah, lucky Orkut friend :)

  4. Beautiful beautiful :)

    i wanted to write a lot, but considering something i wont :P also want to tell u mistakes, but i am skipping that too :P hehe

    its a cute dedication parul will be proud of it :)

    yes parul you're a very important part of his life dear :)

    and wetting bed :O hehe shuker hay you told ke with tears werna garbar hu jati hehe

    keep writing ste :)


  5. That was a touching article..
    Let the bondage be more strong..!!



  6. wow ste.. such a sweet post... heartfelt...made me think about my best friend...

  7. ah, this post is like a tag! :)
    so many are attempting! :)

    writing their hearts! loved it steph! so nice to have such best friends!

  8. .a.


    lagta hai u will need a gud kick from my side

  9. .............. i loved it !! And Wish ur friendship grows and remains forever..

  10. may god bless your friendship.. parul rocks and that tells me you dont behave like that with anyone else except her..with reference to her 10 points in your little conversation.. :P :P :P

    hugs! you raak too!!

  11. she must be the bestest friend someone can have...you are lucky STE...!!!

  12. Hmmm.....Remember the stuff I had written in the lol @ lounge contest...It's all coming to shape now .....

    Hmmmmmm :D

  13. This is such a cute post.

    The best part was, it was straight from your heart, and without any pluses or minuses.
    Sometimes your make really strong bonds with people you knw virtually, but nonetheless, they are relationships which you need to respect, value and cherish for the times to come.

  14. Friendship.. The mere word itself brings up a smile on our face... so did your post :)

  15. Woww....that is such an honest post!!! Well written..........Long live ur friendship!

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  17. Beautiful dedication. Must make her very happy.. !

  18. nice dedication ste...parul will be happy