Last night I was chatting with my very good blogger friend.E2 had asked me to read her blog post. I read and found it amusing(but sad).It was a total tragedy ,a dilemma to be honest.I just felt that it would be embarrassing for her.How on Earth would your best friend fall in love you?. Oops! yes there are many exceptions.But being so close and you carry this tag of being best friends and even then you have these much feelings for someone who understands and treats you as a best friend. Well this isn't funny. Lets highlight few points in this space.
1.When your best friend falls in love with you?
I am always known as a humour writer who then changed to fiction.This so called solitary fiction writer started writing Romantic stories. These romantic stories later on instigated him to write Love and Relationship posts.This is what the Solitary writer is trying to do.Any way coming to the topic.Do you have any best friends? Silly Solly...I guess everyone must be having one.Before that let us explain what best friend means.My Nokia N70 dictionary defines "Best friends" as the one who is closest to you.Oye! this constitutes only 10% definition of best friend.A best friend is one who is close to you, he/she is the one who understands you,he/she is the person who cares for you. They think of your betterment.They are the one who don't expect any thing not even a favour for your kind deeds.They support us and provide solace when we were upset and feeling low.In short a best friend is a secret holder.They are the one who have immense trust on you and you have the same opinion of them.In such a case if a best friend falls in love with you ,then there is something which should be taken care of.
After being best friends for so long and one day your best friend proposes you. Well people would love to refrain from such situations.Would there be a scenario when both the friends would love to extend the relationship one step ahead.If there is a yes from both the sides,then its a bliss else its fine .No worries,we are going to talk about such things.
Firstly give some time.Think for a while.Think about the good times you had with the person. Think about those beautiful tours ,outings and picnics you went with your gang especially with your best friends. Reminisce those days when you fought with your bestie like mad and crazy. Well if you call him/her as your best friend then you would think.Don't lose your temper.I know being best friends we always played prank on each others,we love pulling their legs in front of others and so on.
Secondly communication may prove to be effective.Just walk to him/her and tell what you feel for him.Let him/her know whats running through your mind.Let them think too.If nothing works then let them know about your goals in life, career prospectives etc.Its all in your hand.But do take care that your friend is not hurt.This is a very delicate and sensitive topic.But let me tell you that there is a big difference between best friends and relationship partners.Falling in love with some one is too easy ,but falling for your best friend is something strange.Just tell that you
2.When your Best friend falls in love with your girlfriend/boyfriend?
3.When your Best friend hurts you?
"Hurt never Smile ever" is not followed by everyone.So as its not
Dear friends ,friendship is one of the most priced possesion/gifts in the world.A friend is our alter ego.Its the most pure relationship in the world.They sow the seeds of happiness and you derive more happiness as you reap it. Just be good to friends.Don't lose your friends even if they love or hurt you.Yeh not to forget ...just give them a kick when he/she has an eye on your girl/guy. Kidding!! Any way next posts would be a