Friday, August 06, 2010


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"Good bye my dear love"
Its a big shocker of the world for someone who has been in relationship and one day the person bids adieu.Why on earth do people fall in love with each other if they are not destined to live together.Love is pure and I don't think people fall in love quite often.Love is one of those purest entity or a feeling which is un expressable.I have a very close friend of mine who is low and depressed these days.During these 4 years of my friendship with her ,I haven't seen her break and cry to this extent.She is dejected and when I came to know the reason I got the biggest shock of my life.How much he used to love her and they used to be happy together?People would get jealous when they saw both of them as couples. Its true that both of them belong to different religions and cultures,but it doesn't means  that you can't live.For the first time when you  utter the magical word you promise the person that you would be with them forever and you won't leave them  even in the worst phase of the life."Good bye" is one such  harsh word in relationship.No one in relationship would ever like to hear this words from their loved ones.
For a person who is leaving for a war,it is unpredictable because a good bye from him  may be the last good bye if things go wrong.For a  person who is employed  and relocated far away from famly then a  good bye for him is a source of income.It is this good bye which gives him the courage to live alone and earn bread and butter for his family.This word has a strong impact and trust me this is  a powerful word.Coming back to the discussion about the love and relationship.Why would our loved one betray us by saying words which would hurt us?.I want to ask you the same to everyone who reads this post.Heart is very vulnerable ,my dear friends.It is a combination of feelings and emotions.Not every one is brave enough to accept defeat and failure  in love.

"Nothing I could say to you,Nothing I could ever do to make you feel what you mean to me.All the tear and pain I cried ,till you never said good bye.But now I know how far you'd go"
These are few lines from Avrils song.I don't remember the name of this song.These lines are so meaningful and for those in love would surely know the importance of these few lines.How much does it means to someone who are in relationship?.Hurting some one by saying these words are easy but to learn and realize the impact it creates on the person is very diffcult.It is a turbulance.Not every one would like to know the scenario or may no one would wish.If goodbye was the last option then what was the use of saying  flowery words to impress and red roses to pull a smile from the persons face.If only it was known that the smile was not long lasting and it  would soon be replaced by tears.
I don't intend to write a love and relationship post.I was just talking to my friend and I realized about this topic.Its difficult to digest the fact  when someone whom you know since long leaves you without letting you know anything.Lets deviate from this topic .So friends ,I urge you to understand the meaning  of love.It is something which is special.Its a special feeling between two individuals.Never ever leave your loved ones and hurt them.Lets live and celebrate life.Let make every journey of our life colorful. Never use this  word in relationship because  leaving your loved ones is like leaving your precious assets. Have a great time ahead guys. And its my turn to say
"Good bye my dear friends" :p


  1. good post Solli, but why the goodbye to us in the end? u goin on a trip? :) :P

    ATB for BATOM :)

  2. Love is a much misunderstood, misused and abused word coz people use it without giving much thought to it and really understanding its essence. Nice post.
    Keep it up!

  3. i completely agree that it takes a while before someone can be IN-love.

  4. I've had my share of experiences from my dearest friends like the one you were talking about, so I can understand your emotions behind this post.

  5. huh? where r you goin'?

    heart is really vulnerable to pain and being left!

    so long time, i missed u in my space. u must be too busy a working man na...:)

    all the best Ste!

  6. Hey a great post, expressed at its best.. I agree that this should the period before love..

    All The Best for BAT 13.

    Do stop by Gmsaravana - Goodbye

    Yours Frendly,
    Someone Is Special

  7. good post.
    Some people seldom realise the pain that they inflict on the others' with just a few words...

    those lines are from avril's song 'I will be'

    ATB for BAT13
    Gkam - Goodbye

  8. Thought-provoking. Sticks and stones may break my bones my words can never hurt me. Okay, except goodbye. :P

    All the best!

  9. Nice theme! People are inconsiderate of others feelings sometimes and that is when it hurts the most.
    All the best !

  10. Nice take on the philosophy. Enjoyed reading it.

  11. vee

    it hurts u know nd i cant see my frnd sad