Thursday, January 28, 2010

195.A Rap Song - By Anurag

195.A Rap Song - By Anurag
Okay People in the house reading this …Since this is a guest post …and since it has to be fun ….I want you people to read the following as a RAP...So get that Eminem cap on and Burst that damn balloon coz it’s Stibu Mama’s 200’th post celebration …*Woohoo*

The Solitary Writer , he is one cool guy
Now that’s a fact, nobody can deny
Here’s a dedication on his 150’th post
On his boat floating on his own coast

He writes some super cool stories
And has an uber cool blog
He also works really hard
And doesn’t shy away from a slog.

Thinks he cannot write a poem
But comes up with some pointed darts
He gets onto your nerves sometimes
And sometimes melts your hearts

He sometimes talks sense
Sometimes acts like a noob
But reading his stuff on his blog
Sab ho jaate hain “doob”

In his glasses, he looks like a geek
But don’t get fooled, coz he is not!
He is one clever guy, any women would seek
They would find him rather handsome and hot!

He has this friend, won’t tell her name
They talk to each other every single day
Hope this is not just another silly game
Hope it’s for real and may long it stay

Lastly mate, I know this has been one silly rap
But don’t let our friendship have a gap
For you are a really good buddy, stay as you are
C’mon Mann.. Now let’s meet up in a bar!

:D

Thursday, January 21, 2010

193.I love you,but... - 1

~~ This is a fiction work and all images have been taken from deviantart.com

Sonali rushed to her bedroom with her laptop as she reached her home. She was already late from college and she wanted to talk to some one to whom she was a mystery. Sonali was fondly known as Sonu by all her friends and her family. Almost everyone called her Sonu. She untied her braids as she sat on her bed.She logged into messenger which is the first thing which she would do after entering home.As usual Mrs.Rathod would helplessly watch her 19 year old daughter with a pout face. Sonali was everything to Mrs Rathod. A girl born in a middle class family in Gujurat would often be considered as a blessed child. She was no different than others.

"Sonu, jami le (Sonu,eat your food)," Mrs Rathod said to her daughter as she arranged the books on the table.
"ma, thodi waar ma aavu chhu(Ma,I will come in a while)," Sonu said to her mother as she checked her mails without nictating her eyes.


" hey bhagwan, aa computer upar akho divas shu kare chhe(God knows what she does on the computer) " Mrs Rathod murmured as she was unhappy with her daughters activities.

"Hey there," A window popped up on her computer.

A smile appeared upon her face as she saw the chat window.
cool_dude09: Hey Sonu! you there.
sweet_sonu89:hey hi Rahul. :)
cool_dude09: how are you? hows everyone@ your end?
sweet_sonu89: I'm good and everyone is good. what about you?and hows Manchester
cool_dude09: hmm they are good too and hey Manchester United won that match against Arsenal.
sweet_sonu89: (with a smile) I am not talking about that cricket match. I am asking about your place.
cool_dude09:Its football dumbo and yes Manchester is rocking as usual .You tell.
sweet_sonu 89: ok sorry yar.
cool_dude09: you know what I have not seen you and I want to see you today. Pls will you show me your picture.
sweet_sonu89: but... :-O why?
cool_dude09: I want to knw hw u look like?
sweet_sonu89: Look rahul.I don't look good and I know I am ugly.I am sorry.I hope you understand.
cool_dude09: damn it! I have been chatting to you without knowing you.Am I insane?
sweet_sonu89: you are not.I'm insane.I am ugly Rahul.Understand yar.I don't want to ruin our friendship.
cool_dude09: Don't worry.I jst want to be ur friend and I am not here to date any one..samjii?
sweet_sonu89:achha theek hai.give me some time.I will get back to you in a while.

Rahul's best friend Ansh was present with him.Rahul would share all his secrets with his best friend Ansh.

Rahul had told many good things about Sonali to his best friend.He knew Sonali as Sonu like everyone.He was born and raised up in Manchester and he was amongst the richest Indian living in England.His father Mr. Rajdeep Seth had won several awards in business and had featured in many lists.Rahul was quite sure that Sonu was a good looking girl

cool_dude09: still waiting?
cool_dude09:Buzzz!!.

Sonali wanted to play a trick with Rahul.She knew that Rahul wanted to see her picture.She was a simple girl with average looks.Many of them called her pretty while others called her gorgeous.She never boasted and always wanted to be a simple girl.She searched for a guy's image in internet and shared it with Rahul.

sweet_sonu89: can you see me Rahul?
cool_dude09: wait its blurred.let it load.
sweet_sonu89:Hmm.I am warning you and I am ugly .Don't faint.
cool_dude09: Are you a dude? (shocked)
cool_dude09:Buzz! are you a guy?
Sonali could not control her laughter as she wanted to know Rahul's reaction.She liked him and she always wanted to test his patience.
sweet_sonu89:(grin) Yes Yes any doubts .Its me.
Rahul without any second thought blocked her from his messenger list.
"Hahaha, bewakoof I knew this man..Its virtual world baby," Ansh taunted
"Man,I can't believe Sonu is a guy," Rahul said to his best friend.

"It happens dude,don't give a damn to virtual friendship man," Ansh smiled.

Meanwhile Sonali was sending messages to Rahul ,but she had no reply.
sweet_sonu89:Hey Rahul! are you there?
sweet_sonu89: hey its not me. I am a girl ...hey please reply.
sweet_sonu89: Buzz!
sweet_sonu89: Rahul I want to talk to you.pls reply

"Man,I advice you please don't believe in internet and what are you doing?," Ansh said to Rahul
"I am writing a mail to that asshole,"Rahul was furious.
"You bloody *&*& why the f@ck you did this to me.I am not a gay like you dude.Leave me alone and I blocked you.don't bother me you bloody asshole," Rahul was vexed as he clicked the 'send mail' button.

Meanwhile Sonali was trying to contact Rahul.She wrote a mail to him explaining that she was actually playing a prank on him.She attached her original photo as an attachment.

"Dear Rahul, you know what I just have a feeling that I started liking you.I like you rahul.Please talk to me.I am not a man and I have send you my picture with this email.Please talk to me.Love Sonali,"Sonali wrote the mail.

As soon as she send the mail to Rahul, she got another mail. It was an email from Rahul.Sonali could not accept and she was frustrated.She was said that her pranks annoyed Rahul.But she could not digest the derogatory words and abuses made by Rahul.

"Enough,I just realized how bad you are!," Sonali replied to Rahul's email.

Rahul was sad and his face would clearly exhibit it.
"Beep,you have an email," the messaging system said.
"Oh it seems that asshole replied," Rahul said to his friend.
Rahul read the mail and was shocked when he saw the picture. He cursed himself. He looked at Sonali's picture for a while and was unhappy with his behaviour and gestures.

"Man,look at Sonu,"Rahul said to his friend Anshul.
"Oh my god!," Ansh replied without blinking his eyes.

(To be continued..)

Thursday, January 14, 2010

192. Happy Birthday My Best friend Parziii!!!



Friends are not made for life and true friendship is not a transient relation. Friends are some one who make you feel better yes they even create nightmares for you sometimes,but lets limit our discussion till the good clean side of friendship.They stand behind you during your bad sides and strife.Some times in our life we pine to get good friends who would understand us and atleast assure happiness in our life.I many times in my life wondered if I had a better friend and now I have a best friend . The reason for this post is that 22 years ago on 15th Jan ,an angel was born in India. She was amongst the prettiest looking angel who called herself stupid and mad. She preferred to stay simple and modesty was her main weapon.Whatever be the case ,she would remain modest and would not boast off things.A very happy birthday to my best friend Parzi who turns 22 today. Yey!! party time ..my friend has turned one more year old....
Today I want to thank god for giving me her friendship which I would like to preserve and cherish it forever. She is simple,understanding,creative,genius,supportive,kind and most importantly some one who tolerates me.She is my Vent zone who patiently listens to my vent and gives me suggestions and tips to solve my problems. She acts as a mentor ,a teacher ,a guru who inspires and teaches you things .She is some one who writes inspirational posts which is amongst the most visited post in my blog.Heart has a reason which reason knows nothing off :)). This post was written by my very own best friend and just loved the way it was expressed and written. She acts as a doctor who gives lectures about how to reduce your weight ,blood pressure and control your anger.Her anger and sister management lessons are quite useful to many of us. Most importantly she is a physchologist who solves your problems and reads your mind. Have a problem ,better say it to Parzi and guess what you will get the best possible solution to your problem. I am not bragging about my friend nor I am being Pompous.I am just speaking the fact on her birthday.For those who don't know her then I suggest you to read few of my old posts about her.I liked you for many reasons.Most importantly you are my friend which is the best possible thing in the world.You know I just don't know how to express my happiness .It was a random add request and sometimes random friends turn into best of your friends.Thanks a lot for being my friend today. I could not ask anything else ,but a better health,a blissful life and happiness for my best friend. I want to see my lecturer aka doctor aka teacher aka best friend happy forever.I won't tolerate your lessons in fact I cherish and enjoy your lessons.You are a gift to all your friends and your family.I just wish you remain happy forever and make people happy around you with your presence.I know your presence itself is enough to make people around you happy. And one more big thing is that she is my secret holder.She has the key to my secret box and its she who gets to know it first. Most of them have been depressive and sad,but guess what relying on your bestie's shoulder is not a bad thing,ain't it?I would like to thank you for some reasons on your birthday.

I really want to say a big thank you from the bottom of my heart for-
*always bringing a smile on my face when I least want to.
*for always making me feel remembered and special!
*for being ever so patient and sweet enough to listen to all my stupid rants
*for accepting me the way I am..though I know it really gets irritating at times..coz thats when you say"you don't fit this century"..but then asking me not to change!
*for inspiring me and encouraging me with your lessons
*for giving me the sweet useful tips and suggestions in form of lessons and lectures.AML and SML were really great.
*for listening,caring,helping for being there always...THANK YOU SOOOOOOOOOOO MUCHH!

I am sure I can't reciprocate a percent of all that you have done for me..but I can promise you one thing that whenever you need a friend I will always be there...for sure! Now coming to the things I need to apologise for..
so here's a heartfelt "sorry"-
*Sorry for making you feel bad at times.
*Sorry for making you cry at times by pestering you with useless things.
*Sorry for not being a good friend although I am trying to be one.
*Sorry for not being regular on your blog.
*Sorry for all the times I scolded and irritated you and made you feel sad.
*Sorry for all my acts which hurt you at times and forgive me for the same.I'm sure you would forgive me on your birthday else you are gone :P

I still fail yo understand how my best friend would react after reading all this. But I'm sure she is going to kill me for sure. Read this post to know more about her. I really wanted to be a good friend to you.I am sure I will be one day.You know what I am always here to make you smile :))



Thanks for your friendship.I will write about our leg pulling,pranks,frogs,pestering thing and other serious things on a separate post. I rather want to refrain myself from get beaten on your birthday :P. You are the best .You rock. You can wish her on
www.xpressive-thoughts.blogspot.com
PS: She is a wonderful writer as well..Check the first link that I ve given up:)) Have a great day ahead.
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Friday, January 08, 2010

191.'What an Idea Vipuljiii(?)' -(Blog-a-Ton 6)


This post has been published by me as a part of the Blog-a-Ton 6; the sixth edition of the online marathon of Bloggers; where we decide and we write. To be part of the next edition, visit and start following Blog-a-Ton.
Once upon a time in Mumbai,there lived a 21 yr old boy called Ste,for whom writing was a passion. He was an Engineer by profession but he adored writing to such an extent that instead of coding he would land up writing Short stories. After working for several weeks and months he would get tired and sometimes he would get upset as he could not write much. His ambition was to become a writer and he praised Paulo Coelho,Marquiz Garcia Gabriel and Jeffrey Archer.These three were god to him. Some times he was afraid that he would miss writing forever. Once and for all he decided to take a break from Engineering and went on to write books.But for this he would have to start at a smaller basis.He planned to write for some online magazines. That was the same time when he met his best friend Nehatrix .She told him about Vipul and Vipul sir was running an online magazine called 'Blog-a-Ton' consisting of 200 + prolific writers. She asked him to meet Vipul and ask for a writers job on his E magazine.
Ste was an aspiring writer and many people say that he was born to 'save the earth' and so he was addressed as STE . He called himself as the Solitary Writer as he wrote poems and stories all alone in his bedroom.
He mailed Vipul sir about the writers job.Soon within 24 hours Vipul had called Ste for an interview. Ste was all excited. He had given several interviews in his lifetime and he cleared most of them.But this time Ste was nervous. He carried his file which contained all his works which included poems,stories and 55'ers.
Ste got dressed up and left for BAT(Blog-a-Ton) office.

"May I come in Sir," Ste said with a soft voice.
"Yes come in Gentleman, take your seat," Vipul said to him.
Ste scanned the entire cabin and found that the office was embellished with wall paintings and modern art.

"What are you looking at?," Vipul asked Ste.
"Sir, the paintings are brilliant ," he said
"I made it man," Vipul said.
"Its ausumn," Ste smiled.

Ste stood up and saluted Vipul after he read a name plate on Mr Vipul's table.
"Marshal Vipul ," was written on the name plate.

"Sir, I never knew that you served for our nation, please give me your autograph," Ste was excited.
"Stop it I say," Vipul said for once.
"I'm the Marshal of Blog-a-Ton," he added.
"By the way what do you think of these paintings," Vipul grinned.
"Wow,they are ausumn sir,who made it?," Ste replied.
"Well these are my masterpeice," Vipul sat straight with a proud face.
"Amazing sir, you are truly a phenomenon sir," Ste said.

"Ok lets start with the interview then," Mr. Vipul said.

Marshal Vipul: Why do you want to write for our Magazine?
Ste: Sir I believe that this is the space where we can reveal our talents and I'm sure that I am in the right place and in front of right person who would appreciate talents.
Marshal Vipul: I'm impressed Mr Ste. What is Ste?
Ste: Ste is the tag given to some one who saves the earth.
Marshal Vipul: You mean STE for saves the earth.
Ste: (smiles) yes exactly marshal.
Marshal Vipul: Common now lets start with serious discussions.
Ste:(serious face) ok marshal.
Marshal Vipul: (Hands over a painting to Ste) Now write a complimenting post on this picture.


Marshal Vipul:I must congratulate Me, Myself and I for suggesting this image.
Ste: ( Stares at the picture for 5 minutes ) Sir, this isn't fair? I can't interpret or think of anything.This image is dull and stupid.
Marshal Vipul: Now what you have to do is, take inspiration from this image and write a complementing post. If you find the image dull, try to add spice to it with your words. Give whatever title to this image

Ste: But..But...Marshal...firstly I can't even think of anything and you want me to write a complementing post on this.
Marshal Vipul: Moreover, its upto you; which mood or tone you choose to set it in, i.e. serious, witty, humour, optimistic or whatever that comes to you naturally.Again, you have the freedom to choose the language of communication. However, we'll suggest you to write in English
Ste:(Perplexed) This seems to be have drawn from Paintbrush.
Marshal Vipul: common ste don't you dare commenting about my painting skills .Write quickly we are running out of time. Frankly, even I am not sure, how am I going to shape my post .
Ste:(confused) what? But i can see a pencil,few lines and few primary colors. These are geometrical shapes sir...
Marshal Vipul: Oh good! my boy write about it.
Ste: (thinks thinks and thinks ) 'What an Idea Vipuljii(?) '.
Marshal Vipul: Oh wow! how short and sweet. 'What an Idea Vipuljii!'seems to be interesting.
Ste: (grins and winks at Marshal) Thank Thank you.
Marshal Vipul: I loved the way you described the picture. Amazingly wonderful.You are a genius my boy.You are appointed. Wow 'What an Idea Vipuljii!' (Grins and smiles)
Ste: (faints and gets up in 5 second) Oh thank you thank you Marshal.Then shall we talk about the salary sir.
Marshal Vipul: ( Faints)
Ste: (Grins) 'What an Idea Vipuljiiiiii (?)'

.Alls well that ends well and finally he got a job.All thanks to Marshal Vipul.
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Wednesday, January 06, 2010

190. 47 Romantic things to do for your Lover!!

190. 47 Romantic things to do for your Lover!!
Any way guys ,this is actually an email which I got from some group .So I thought of sharing this with you guys. .. Have fun and enjoy .This is really kewll especially the graphic images that the person has used to relate the same. Have fun till then I come back with something different. God bless ...And here goes your 47 Romantic things to do for your Lover.


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10. Write poetry
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11. Hugs are the universal medicine.

12. Say
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13. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/ poetry etc.

14. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie!

15. Spend every second
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16. Look into
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17. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
18. When in public, only flirt with each other.

19. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.

20. Buy her a ring.

21. Sing
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22. Always hold her around her hips/sides.

23. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.

24. Hold her hand, stare into
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25. Dance
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26. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.

27. Make excuses to call
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28. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call
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29. Call
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30. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.

31. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.

32. Be Prince Charming
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33. Brush her hair
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34. Hang out with his/her friends.
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37. Take her to see a romantic
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38. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.

39. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.

40. Make sacrifices
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41. Really love each other, or don't stay together.

42. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it.

43. Love yourself before you love anyone else.

44. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.

45. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
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46. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.

47. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.


Monday, January 04, 2010

189.One Night stand on a New Year Night! - 2


Monday ->Piyali.
Tuesday->Misbah
Wednesday->Parizad
Thursday ->Marissa
Friday->Isabelle
Saturday->Deepali
Sunday->Tanpreet

Caste no bar.Even he didn't care for any religion or community.He changed girls like clothes.He slept with different girls everynight.Girls easily fell prey to him.He was not less than a big flirt.He never followed the concept of marriage.He refused to accept and respect Indian culture and traditions.He never cared for any one .But there was some one who loved him.She was a pretty looking Indian girl.She only knew the good side of him. He was a rude and ill mannered person.

"Where are we going?" the girl asked him.
"To heaven," he said.

"Am gonna take you to a special place tonight," he added.
"Oh is it dear!," she said

It was a brand new year and he took her to a hotel far away from the main city.She left her parents just for him.She was about to elope with him.

He held her tightly on his arms.The world was busy celebrating the new year and they both were stranded alone in a dark room.
He moved closer to her and she moved away from him
"What are hell are you going to do to me?," She said with a straight face
"I'm going to show you heaven," He tried to kiss her.

He tickled her.He kissed her alluring cheeks.The girl kissed him back.But by then she clearly understood his intentions and stayed away from him.

"I love you," He said.
"Oh is it! do you really love me or my body ,"she said.

"You're a bloody asshole,fucking loser ," she said.
He strangled her and grabbed her firmly as if he was going to rape her at midnight. She kicked him hard and ran away.

"I may not be the same whom you were looking for and I know what you did to that girl last year, you fucking loser," She said and left the place.

He sat on the bed and her words remind her of the innocent girl with whom he played one year ago the same night.
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You can read it here
It was not a feminist post to be honest.It was actually a straight forward post of things happening in Urban cities and I wanted to share it with my readers.I was amazed by the way few people commented.I'm going to paste few of them.But before doing that you've to read the previous post which was written on 1st Jan 2009.
Comments on that post
1.Neha said...

The girl should hunt him down and kick his Fu***ng ass!! And then make him incapable of doing anything to any girl (or guy) any time!!

What a loser!!! Fu***ng chu**** saala!!! It's because of such bas***** that the whole male clan gets a bad name!!

PS: I am NOT a feminist!!!

2.mona said...

God, Stephen.. that was such a shocking and hard-hitting post!!

I don't know what to say.. I believe the girl should really teach the boy a lesson... if she leaves him he will go on ruining more lives... and most importantly not feel guilty about it herself.. mostly girls are so busy cursing themselves that they drown into pools of guilt and end up spoiling their own lives...

Reality is too gruesome to accept sometimes... truly!!!

3.Aarthi said...

Bad post..no doubt!! :x

And as far as my view is concerned, i think the girl should never forgive him..she has to teach him a lesson.. real hard kick on his DI**!!(
Sorry guys for using such words..)

But i think for such bastards.."TO BE HANGED TO DEATH" is the punishment!!

And Ste, once again, a very bad post for a brand new year!

4.Shruti said...

hmmm...on the contrary.. I liked it!! It happens everywhere and every year!!

Well, in the first place, that girl shouldn't have gone with him if she didn't know him that well!!
And otherwise..the girl should make sure that that son of a bi*** is raped by gays in the middle of another new year party...

5.joiedevivre said...

its an open end..or i shud say d hard reality of what we call as life...

6.**ThE SiLeNt SouL** said...

Ste..nice 1. Nt at all awful, but jostling.......to the core. Ppl lk dat guy shud b packed in their own pride and thrown in d waste of their money...

Good post. No issues abt the starting of a new year...even i have smthng kinda on d negatv frnt(BUT REALITY) on my page...but thats fine ....

7.Rashi V said...

I agree with all said above... Just teach him a lesson and forget him! A different girl every night? How about no girl ever?

Waiting for your feedbacks..

Till next time.

~TSW~

Saturday, January 02, 2010

188. Listening to what our Heart has to say!

188. Listening to what our Heart has to say!

Life has always been an enigma for many people.As we grow older we tend to be mature enough to make right decisions in our life. Sometimes in life we take steps blindly irrespective of its future scope.We tend to look for its immediate advantage,but do we realize how important that could be to us.Its said that heart has its reason which reason knows nothing of.Long ago I remember I even wrote a post about this. Some times we wish to preserve the validity of the logic that we applied for some things in our life.Our life is precious and we wish to make wonders and make our people happy.We all deserve a blissful life with happiness surrounding us.

I bet many of us would be having some childhood dreams.Our parents work hard to fulfil our dreams.If our dreams were something different from theirs then we would end up negotiating with them.We strive to come ahead in this race of life. We are not here to compete with any one.Just listen to your heart and work hard to get something fruitful.I agree it may sound harsh and strange but we can't help as its a fact. When we faced with difficulties and problems in our life,we should go by what our heart speaks.Yes our heart speaks, we should abide by what it says. I'm sure we all would love to do it.You want to do something different and finally end up doing something different.Don't let your life be a tragedy.Do something that you wished to do,never mind its difficult but thats something which would take you to the top in your life pyramid.Why would you live your life for some one else and be a machine to them?.Do you even realize that by making them happy you are actually surrendering and sacrificing your happiness.I also know that they are important and they mean to you.They are with you since were a baby and they adore you like anything. If you don't live and cherish your life for yourself ,then you are really missing something. Knock your heart and just speak to it.Why don't we apply logic to what we do and what all decisions we take in our life.
Logical reasoning is an essential entity in decision making. Think of the mirthful days that you are going to live.I have come across in my life when people said "I wish I had done something constructive,now I'm a loser" . I'm sure no one in this world would love to be called loser.If you'd listened to your heart then you wouldn't have regret for something disastrous that would happen in mere future.Rather than cursing your luck in future ,you could better apply logic to your decisions.I agree it is not easy to do as it is easy to say.

Many people have many things to say.I agree these are the barriers in your life.Leave the barriers aside and focus on your success path. Barriers and hindrances are parts and parcels of your life.If you don't have anyone to obstruct,I bet life wouldn't be thrilling. It will be challenging enough to score and soar high. Many times I have come across people who said."I am set in life today just because I listened to what my heart said when I was young" . Get out of the visible outcomes and distractions.They are always there to hurt you every time you get up in this so called life.Pleasure that is derived by doing this is immense and you won't complain. Making decisions in your life is like taking a big risk.So better make a right one and a safe one.Never lease your life for someone by taking a wrong step.Every one in life works to taste success.So do we as an entity in this world.Sometimes in life we may come across a point where everything would be messed up.It would be like rearranging your closet containing over 1000 clothes.We should never give up at such times. Deadlocks are always there at every phase of your life,it just depends on how you interpret it.Its on the way we take things.Lead a better life by listening to what your heart says.Be a better person as Henry Amiel had once said "Man becomes man only by the intelligence.but he is man only by the heart"