Dear,
I hope you are doing
fabulous. I have to deliberately ask you
this after speaking to you last month and after reading through your mind, I’m
upset about you. You are not the same anymore. I still remember how I used to
scold you for bombing my Facebook timelines with too many status messages and
funny meme’s. Do the good old days disappear when melancholy strikes?
I have no words to say what I
feel right now. My piece of advice for you at this point of time is to be
strong. My intention of writing this letter is not to preach. I’m not a priest to
give you sermons. Every single day when
I talk to you, I have this constant fear gripping me – the fear of you not acknowledging
me! Don’t you remember the days we used
to talk to each other – for hours! I’m
simply not amazed at the fact that you have caused yourself in a troublesome
situation by alienating from the world.
If that helps then I would not stop you but if that makes you stronger
then I will encourage you. Disappointment haunts me every time I type a hello
to you on Whatsapp messenger. What if you never reply me? Isn't failure an attribute of successful
people? You may disapprove of this but most
successful people have tasted failures during their early days of life. They
toiled hard and they have reached the milestones only after struggling. Why don’t
you seek inspiration from them? Is that too much an ask? There are various
stories that speak about this. Dropping a year is not okay to many. Similar is
the case with you. I understand that you
are quite young. At this age, people talk about ambitions and aspirations. I’m
quite sure you must have dreamt a lot about your future too. People will be there to talk behind your back. Let them talk whatever they want to! It's their job to bring others down. They might do their job. Never let the negative feelings grip you. People will come and go in your life and say many things about you. They talk behind your back because they fear facing you. Everyone has a different perspectives. Extract the positives from what they say and ignore the negatives. Ignorance is a bliss and you very well know that. Welcome to life! That is how life is!
Failures knock our door when we least expect it. Today I would narrate you my
story on how I landed to Noida
alienating myself from my loved ones. I can’t tell you how much hurt I must
have caused myself taking the life changing decision of my life! I had too many
regrets then.
“Each decision brings its own
delays and days are lost lamenting over the lost days.” A dear friend of mine would often remind me
of this quote. Every one tagged me as a cribber. I had no one to cheer me up
and make me stronger. But today you have me. I am only doing my bit to mold
you into a stronger person. The sky will
not always be blue. The birds would stop
crooning someday. It’s okay to well your
eyes with tears. Our cheeks do need to experience what tears feel like! But let’s not make it a daily routine- even they won’t like it. It’s OK to cry but remember
that you have to mold yourself into a stronger individual. You have lost your
smile these days. Don’t you know how
much I used to adore your smile?
I don’t see the loquacious you anymore. I fear
that if you continue doing this then you will only hurt yourself. An old adage speaks – “The journey in between
what you once were and who you are now becoming is where the dance of life
really takes place.” I can cite several quotes for you just to motivate you. At
this point, it’s important for me to make you understand that failure is not
something that brings you down. Don’t remain submerged in it. I too sailed a
similar boat that you are travelling now. So, I can understand your pain. Your
pain might be higher in intensity than mine but its okay!
“Often in life, we forget the
things we should remember, and remember the things we should forget.” And you
are just doing the latter! You should come out of the depression and instill
joy in your life. My attempts to motivate
might turn futile or may turn fruitful. It depends on how you take it. I’m quite sure your dreams will materialize
soon. Stay positive, be positive, and
think positive! And lastly read this line carefully,
“Never back down. Life is like a bull;
you have to take it by the horns, even if you’re thrown around, get up and go
again!”
Love,
#Ste
A Quality Analyst by day and a dynamic blogger by night, Ste is an out-of-the-Box thinker whose thinking cap is never on the resting mode. The real feather on his thinking cap is his creativity which you can see in all his works, be it short stories, poems or sketches. He is a very big fan of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Most of his short stories are inspired from real life and things that fascinates him. His blog "The Solitary Writer" is a central repository of his entire creative spear." Did you like this post? Get The Solitary Writers updates via Facebook or Twitter, better yet, subscribe to it via RSS Feed. It’s easy, and free!Also you can discuss in the Forum. Comments are just another way to let me know how you feel.Don't forget to comment.
*Hugs* This makes me strong! :)
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DeleteAww.. Hugs
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DeleteThis letter motivated me as well. Everyone should get a friend like you Ste!! I hope good times shine very soon upon your friend :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Ankita! Your words mean a lot and yes she will be kicking and active soon
DeleteYou went that extra mile..something that only true friends can go. This is truly inspirational.
ReplyDeleteThanks..as a friend if we can't even do this then what are friends for..
Deletegood one
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DeleteVery inspirational Stephen - we all need a hug though :)
ReplyDelete:) thank you so much
DeleteHope your friend comes through soon. This was such a sweet gesture, Ste.
ReplyDeleteThanks :) yes she will bounce back soon
ReplyDeleteLoved this letter Ste :) I am sure this letter instilled the joy in her life you are talking about and I am sure it will keep piling on. Hats off :) Awesome!
ReplyDeleteThank you Sashank. Yes she will be happy. Thank you for your kind words :)
DeleteVery inspiring. I'm going to check on all those friends who I feel are slightly slipping away. Wonderfully written! :-)
ReplyDeleteYes..please do that. Thanks so much :)
DeleteVery nice letter.
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